I am a bit confused here actually JHF. Is it that you can't be friends with these guys cos they think you like them and hence they RUN AWAY? Or that they think you like them and are trying to indeed do the do with you the way that you do best?
My problem seems to be the former… that all guys think I like them and so they just don't talk to me for fear that I will try to get them into bed. Hmmm…. Should I be then taking that as the ultimate anti-compliment Jeff Mac? Perhaos a trip to the beautician may be in order, but I doubt it.
A good friend has since admitted that he didn't want to talk to me cos he thought I liked him first off, and he was scared of that, which was definitely not the case… considering I was interested in someone else at the time!
So which one is it? If they WANT to sleep with you, then THAT'S AWESOME! What the hell? Have a good time cos you're peaking, girl. If it's the other way, I'd be interested in reading the answer to that one too, cos lord knows what the hell I am doing?
Oh yeah, and I totally get the flirt fumbling over the man you really want. It doesn't make sense. I feel your pain.
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I think this may be bigger than you and your husband can deal with on your own. If you want to work through this, I really recommend counseling, but it is important that you don't suggest counseling in a way that sounds like you are trying to find someone to help you "fix" your husband. Approach it more from the angle that you need to understand what he's saying and you think a counselor will help you both understand the issue and will help YOU deal with your emotions and confusion regarding what he told you.
It may be very uncomfortable for him to talk to a counselor abut this. If he doesn't like the first one, go to another one. If he's not willing to work through it with you, then that's a whole 'nother issue.