Heroism
In the midst of a life-threatening
emergency adrenaline begins pumping hard and fast. The "fight or
flight" instinct of self-preservation kicks into high gear. We have
all heard the stories of heroism that take place following a
disaster by ordinary people as they performed amazing acts of
bravery helping neighbors to safety and rescuing those unable to
help themselves. Perhaps you were one of these heroes, or perhaps
you witnessed someone acting courageously without thought of
personal safety.
Confusion
As the height of the disaster
subsides, confusion sets in. There is much activity associated with
locating loved ones, confirming the whereabouts of friends and
neighbors and, finally, returning to assess the damage. Finally,
there is much uncertainty about what to do next.
Disillusionment
In the days and weeks that
follow the disaster, there is a fuller realization of the extent of
the damage. It often becomes evident that many familiar aspects of
everyday life have changed. There is also the recognition that
demands for needed resources far exceed supply.
There is sometimes frustration and anger about the paperwork and time-consuming activities that seem to accompany each step of the disaster relief process. Services appear to be very limited and delays may seem endless. Gradually, the reality of the extensive damage caused by the storm begins to sink in.
Recovery
Each person and each crisis is
different. There is a real grieving process that must take place.
There have been many kinds of loss. It may seem that nothing will
ever be the same. The steps to recovery may seem insurmountable,
but each step forward takes you closer to getting your life back on
track.