Open iCal.

1. Click on the iCal menu.

2. Click on Preferences...

3. Click on the Accounts tab.

4. Click on +.

5. Choose the CalDAV account type.

6. Enter a User Name.

7. Enter a Password.

8. Enter your server address with :6188 at the end.

9. Click Create.

10. Click on Continue.

11. Change the name to be Daylite.

12. Click on the close button.

13. Click on Calendars.

14. Click on Daylite.