Don't visit these sites and just post a link or salesy message
back to your site - that's spammy and you'll get flagged quickly.
Instead, find a way to create valuable content for your target
audience within those communities and then leave contact
information that includes your website. It's a numbers game - the
more people who love and share the content, the more potential
leads you'll generate from people who are genuinely interested in
your cotent.
For Slideshare, here's an excellent
example of a deck that is all about who you are, but also provides
interesting data around growth hacking (it is a little long, I'd
recommend 30 slides max).
Meetup.com (and similar services like eventbrite.com) is one of those services that will do the job of driving traffic to your meetup if you create one. Find a topic your users would be interested in, and bring them great content. If your biggest potential userbase is people on Etsy, then start the NY Etsy Meetup and bring in people who've launched successful products on that platform.
This is also an excellent place to do in person for customer development. You're able to hear first-hand the language your audience uses to describe the problem and get a sense of how they really feel about your product.
Skillshare allows you to teach a skillset to anyone, anywhere. So you might have interest in taking part of the community that's developing around that and help promote your personal brand and projects there.
Newsletters are still a HUGE driving force. If you have an event or content piece you'd like to share, try submitting it to curated newsletters like Startup Digest or Gary's Guide.
Email signatures are another great place to promote your startup without being too pushy. Hotmail was able to grow virally just by adding "PS. Get your free email at Hotmail" to the signature of each person. If you're trying to get people to use your product, put a simple "sign up for x at y" in your signature on every email. Its not too pushy, and over the course of a few weeks you can get potentially hundreds of free users.