Although I am an advocate for
temporarily escaping your issues and problems for the sole purpose
of not internalizing them, I am not an advocate of running from
your problems. One of the common laws of decision making is to not
make any decision in the heat of the moment. You must get away or
allow time to pass so that your choices are not made in haste or
with an emotional tilt. This law also applies to escaping a
difficult set of circumstances. Be able to step away so that you
can view your situation from a different perspective.
I once dated a woman who loved
art galleries. Although I am a person who gets lost easily in the
art world and would probably mistake water colors for magic markers
and crayons, I found it fascinating to watch the average art
connoisseur take in a piece of abstract art. They would stand far
enough from the painting to get a full view, and then they would
tilt their head slightly to either side, sometimes even squinting
their eyes as though they were attempting to blur their vision or
to take a closer look at certain microscopic details.
All of this to gain a different perspective and to take a deeper
look into the work so that they could give their interpretation of
the art. This same process that they use to figure out why certain
paint patterns are aligned on a canvas and how color schemes are
being used, is the same process that we must follow when viewing
our own issues. Take a step away, look at the situation as a whole,
identify patterns and principles that are reoccurring, and come up
with your interpretation of what it will take for you to get
through the situation at hand. Your returning to the situation
should be with a fresh, newly revised outlook.