Your comfort will not come from
your pending success or from financial freedom. You will only truly
be comfortable with your existence when you find inner peace. As I
have stated in prior chapters, we are spiritual beings attempting
to navigate our way through a human experience. Throughout our
journey, however,we lose track of that. We begin to believe that
the only way to experience life is through the five senses, when in
actuality life takes place from within. We, as human beings, have
to learn how to experience the world from the inside out. Our
happiness and peacefulness will never be found in external material
items. For every person who is miserable due to their poverty there
is a wealthy person who is equally as miserable. We live life
through a total inner experience however we tend to allow too many
external influences to dictate how we feel and function on a day to
day basis.
For the most part, we as a
functioning society are against any form of government control over
our personal lives. We do not like to be told what to wear, where
to work, what to eat, or when to go to sleep. We enjoy our personal
freedom. Even though this is the case with our physical being, we
often allow others to dictate how we function internally. One
disparaging word from a spouse, friend, coworker, or even a
stranger can totally change our mood from positive to negative,
from peaceful to angry and distraught. We even allow our forms of
entertainment to sway how we feel internally.
I once had a coworker who called out sick and literally got
depressed every time his favorite football team lost. The music
that we play even sways our mood from happy to sad, peaceful to
angry and vice versa. This seemingly easy persuasion of our inner
being is helping to mold the direction of our lives and our mental
state. Just like the banana, the orange or the egg, our exterior is
our protective shell, however,without the inner contents, the
exterior is rendered useless. As much time as we spend trying to
maintain our exterior we must exceed that focus in an attempt to
better maintain our inner being. Prayer, meditation, different
forms of yoga and becoming more alert and self-aware are all key
components to adding a spiritual balance to your life.